Thanksgiving Day Hike on the way
to Comet Falls Near Mt. Rainier and an Understanding of True Gratitude
By Kat Carroll
Adytum Sanctuary guests all want
to know about great hikes, nearby. Comet Falls, on the drive in to Mt. Rainier,
is just that. In years past, before our optometry offices (Medical Vision
Center and Martin Way Vision Center) were intense and busy, we’d take off in
the early afternoon heading east from Morton the 45 minutes to reach Mt.
Rainier to hike Paradise; and a true Paradise it is. Oftentimes we settled for
hiking on the way to Comet Falls and perhaps see spectacular Narada Falls too instead of driving the distance
to Paradise. There’s always something to see in the Pacific Northwest where Paradise,
with its elevation at the 5400 feet level, sees an average of 126 inches of rain
fall annually creating stunning waterfalls where you’d never expect them- many
along the scenic drive in.
The Comet Falls hike engages
immediately with natural stone forming steps, interlacing with the roots
of ancient trees emerging on the surface to provide a foothold as well.
Pathways can be so seductive, beckoning us on with the hopes of capturing the
essence and thunderous force of a waterfall where we’d least expect to find
one.
Walking among the company of old
friends, The Ancients- Fir primarily, we forget cities, burdens, work, cares,
and we are One with the Earth again as though we’d laid on its surface to soak
in its energy and ground ourselves to Reality once more. This is Reality.
Cities and schedules come and go. This is Life and it nurtures our spirits this
Thanksgiving day.
Truly I can think of few more
pleasurable ways to spend a holiday…I only wish my family were with me today as
we make our way up the gentle rise toward the Falls. Thanksgivings are casualties
of divorce and this one allowed my children to spend time with their father and
some to serve others in working on this day of gratitude. But it was okay. I
just wanted them to experience Life apart from what Thanksgiving has become in
too many cases, not necessarily this one: Turkey, hard work for the women in
the family, and football.
Nature naturally inspires
gratitude. It is also an invitation to exist in the moment whether it entices
us on a gentle upward rise toward beauty or engages fully as man summits a peak
fighting forces of nature and his own exhaustion. To celebrate Thanksgiving in
the mountains is the perfect way for me, today, to gain perspective.
What emerged was an intense
gratitude not so much for the blessings in my life but for the hard spots.
Trials. Places of resignation—of “I am willing to have this be so…” because I woke with The Breath of the Dragon
over the valley and Lake Mayfield and later, as it dissipated as a vapor into
thin air, it taught me in its silent lesson that all of life is a matter of perspective.
For those in the Valley below, trapped in the exceedingly heavy fog and mists we term, “The
Dragon’s Breath” or “Spirit Breathing”, they may have been limited in their thinking,
seeing little but darkness around them, and perhaps felt depressed and hopeless inside
of the seeming oppression. But from our perspective, at Adytum Sanctuary, we
saw beautiful rafts of clouds undulating slowly…rising and falling and gaining
altitude as they made their way to the very tops of tall trees and ringing the
mountains so that only their peaks emerged into the atmosphere. It was
magnificent and it was terrible all at once. It all depends upon perspective.
And this is what I carried into
my hike on this Thanksgiving Day. Nature fed my
spirit and I skipped the focus altogether on feeding my appetite. The first
Thanksgiving focused on what the pilgrims most had need of: physical sustenance. This
Thanksgiving, I have need of spiritual sustenance as things are in front of me
that I balk at interiorly. So as I traversed the gentle slope to a magnificent
waterfall that came so unexpectedly to intersect my meditative walk, I had been
thinking of some people in my life who had horrific things intersect their
lives—hard things and permanent things for which the tunnel would forever
remain darkened with no light at the proverbial end. Gratitude was not only for
the happinesses that are in my life but also that I was not chosen to bear such
hard burdens this year. That year may come, when God deems me strong enough,
but for this Thanksgiving Day, I marveled at the friends around me who WERE
strong enough to bear hard things and face them not with resignation but with
grace and full surrender, willing to be a Light to the rest of us and me in
particular who will complain about the pebble in my shoe.
This Thanksgiving was filled
with the admiration and awe of my dear friends who have earned such a place in
the Universe that they are allowed to bear things which would make most of us
melt. I have a new respect for adversity and thankfulness and blessing on this
Thanksgiving Day is just a small part of embracing ALL that life has with
thanksgiving, blessing it, surrendering to it not with resignation but
welcoming it as a teacher.
A dear friend and mentor of mine
suggested a book, A Treatise on Efficacy Between Western and Chinese Thinking
by Francois Jullien and translated by Janet Lloyd. The Chinese thought process,
which I very much respect, teaches to not seek to impact a situation by
imposing our will upon it but to wait, watching for the advantage to reveal
itself. This is the place where true power is found and it’s been true in my
life in the past when things were hard; patiently waiting, acceptance, and
finally reaching the place of gratitude opened the way for transformation where
imposing will never did one thing but create frustration. The Western way
opposes this thinking. The will is asserted over the situation and yet the
outcome will remain unsure despite the aggressive template of will over conditions.
Thankfulness and gratitude
assume new proportions this Thanksgiving because of learning the Chinese
thought process. It is easy to be thankful for blessings and we in the Western World
in particular have so very, very many. It is not so easy to be thankful for places
we are being led where we have no desire to go but must. This Thanksgiving,
spent in nature among my dear old friends, My Ancients, who have bent and swayed with many a
storm and yet stand firm and strong, I have been taught that gratitude and
thankfulness are not dependent on blessing but upon standing and standing firm
despite the odds. And that those of my friends whom have been tested the most
severely are the ones deserving least of my pity but more my awe and sincere admiration.
One day perhaps I will be counted worthy to be among their number, bearing much
and still standing to give thanks.
